“Pros about Shelby as my therapist: Kind Safe Understanding Intelligent /knowledgeable Challenging (as in she challenges you and your way of thinking in the best way for yourself) Adaptive Advocate for her clients Affordable (with my insurance) Chill vibe / no BS (tells you how it is but in a clear and concise/ non aggressive way) Compassionate Previous to seeing Shelby, when I lived in Illinois, I saw the same therapist for 10 years. While I'm grateful for my past therapist, I have been seeing Shelby for about a year now, and I feel like I have made more progress in my mental health with Shelby then I did in the 10 years with my previous therapist. Shelby has helped me through my divorce/ helped me process the trauma I have experience through this huge life event. She was flexabile when I was in crisis, when I run into financial hardship, she always advocates for me / provided grace when I just needed some more time. It's nice because Shelby and I are close in age, and while our positions are clear it's nice having someone close to my age to talk to, it makes me feel more understood and less alone. She has helped me realize the amount I would disassociate to protect myself as well as help me process getting diagnosed as a late stage autistic. When I was first going through my divorce I asked her if she had an inkling that this was the way it was headed. She kept her integrity of her position but made things clear to me on what she had observed in a way that didn't make me feel like I was being lied to, which is incredibly important/ she preserved the trust needed in a therapist client relationship. Anything that I was afraid of saying to her was met with compassion and care. She let me be myself in a safe environment and felt easy to open up to her. She let me bring my burrito blanket and pillow / sit on the floor with me/ didn't judge me. She introduced me to EMDR and that has been an incredible experience due to the intensity but then the clarity I get after the sessions. I've been in Arizona for 3 years and I wish I would have found her sooner. While I hate the idea of not having a therapist, Shelby gives me the hope that I will one day be able to live a healthy life, with good coping skills, closer relationships, and a better understanding of myself, without needed or I guess relying on a therapist as much, which has never been a thought. While there's nothing wrong with going to therapy and getting help or even returning when needed, the fact that I even have that idea even at all is a miracle. I believed that I would have always needed to see a therapist every week for the rest of my life, because I felt as if I was always, in some way, broken or damaged. The best part tho? Is sometimes there are days where it's just two people existing and interacting in a room that is safe and each of them can be themselves. While for all I know she could be analyzing my behavior or something, those days where I just get to chat or shoot the shit with her or we laugh a lot over funny events that have happened or things we've seen, brings me a sense of normality that I didn't realize I needed/ has helped me realize and make friends here so that I can do it with others too. Thank you Shelby. You're probably not told thank you enough. You do, have, and will continue to make an impact in this world. You're incredibly intelligent and could have literally been anything, but chose to put that brain power into helping others. I am forever grateful and feel like I have grown so much because of your help. "Cons:" She interrupts me 🙄🙄🙄 (🤭🤭🤭 which is just a joke because I talk a lot clearly due to the length of my review/ will get side tract or caught up in a negative thought and she breaks that cycle.)”
C.J. DiVito






























